You’ve been told that Asian guys can’t date white girls. That we as Asian men just have it harder, that the media and Hollywood is against us and we’re too short. I am an Asian guy too and I see so much bs on the internet, that it makes me really angry at how my Asian brothers are thinking about themselves.
A few years ago, I was exactly like that. I was lonely, bitter and sad, that I couldn’t get a girlfriend and I blamed it all on being Asian.
Then I noticed that a few Asian guys on my campus had no problems getting dates with white girls. They were not rich, nor were they particularly athletic or good looking. I really couldn’t figure out why they were so good with women and why being Asian wasn’t a disadvantage for them.
I began hanging out with some of them and observed everything they did, how they carried themselves, how they talked to women, but more importantly, how they talked about themselves. I noticed that they all had some things in common:
They didn’t whine or bitch about being Asian. In fact, I rarely ever heard them talk about ‘white’ or ‘Asian’. They were just comfortable being who they were.
They could socialize with everyone. They were just as comfortable in a ‘white’ crowd as with other Asians. They didn’t try to be ‘white boys’, but they didn’t cling to being Asian either.
They were outgoing and confident. If they wanted something, then they didn’t make excuses, they just went ahead.
You’d think that these guys were born that way, that they were some kind of ‘naturals’ with women, but I know for a fact that most weren’t. They had learned these skills, just as you would learn any other skill. They were part of a small, but dynamic, group of Asian guys who had decided to get that part of their life fixed. They taught me everything they knew and today I am ten times happier than back then. I have a steady girlfriend (yep, she is white) and I have women approach me now.
If you’re serious about getting good with women, and you really have to be or end up lonely, then I strongly recommend you go find guys who also want that. There’s not that big a community of Asian guys into pick up and seduction though and depending on where you live, you may find it a lonely road at times. In any case, I strongly recommend you take a look at: http://asianguyswhitewomen.com and check out that product.
I want you to take action and get this thing sorted out.. Or you can stay where you are now. It’s your choice.
